Partners and Spouses of Sex Addicts
Have you discovered your spouse or partner being unfaithful, using porn compulsively, or engaging in other sexual behaviors that are concerning? Have you discovered inappropriate text messages or emails on your partner’s phone or computer?
If you answered yes to any of the above, you may be feeling overwhelmed, betrayed, and confused about what to do next. You need a safe space to explore your emotions and thoughts. You may feel like you want to make a decision immediately. You need time to sort through your emotions and make healthy choices for you and your family.
It is time to take care of you. Facing the reality that your partner is struggling with sexually compulsive behaviors can be paralyzing. Acknowledging this truth takes newfound courage. You are brave enough to begin this journey out of the trauma, shame, and isolation to step into the light. Healing begins with sharing your story. Recovery from relational trauma takes time, empathy, and most importantly human connection.
Give me a call and we can explore what this means for you.
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
People who have experienced relational trauma often experience symptoms similar to Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). This can include:
- depression
- anxiety
- lack of enjoyment in previously pleasurable activities
- nightmares
- intrusive thoughts
- flashbacks
- feeling isolated
- avoidance of people, places, or things that remind you of the truama
- physiological symptoms such as nausea or upset stomach
If you relate to these symptoms, it is time to reach out for support.